Benjamin Baker Simp Of The Year

It’s one thing to marry a woman with kids and taking on the stepdad role to her kids, but in this situation I don’t see a young man stepping up but a flat out simp of a man and here’s why.

Meet this young man, Benjamin Baker, 21 years old , in the army, and his girlfriend Arisha about the same age but this not her first child, not her second, but her THIRD child! Yes I said it her third child. But that’s not the main issue he met this girl while she was 6 months pregnant with the third child. So you mean to tell me that instead of figuring out how to take care of your three kids you were still looking for a date? Better yet after your first kid you should held off on having anymore, especially seeing as how this girl is probably 21-22 herself.

I know mistakes happen but the same mistake doesn’t happen three times. 9 times out of 10, she probably knew that the guy she was with before wasn’t about anything yet she still continued to mess around with him. Now that her no good baby daddy is gone she was looking for a simp to clean up the mess she was responsible for. Judging from this post the guy sounds like he’s easy to manipulate and could probably be a doormat. In the post he says that when the doctor’s asked was he the father he was hesitant and THE MOTHER spoke up and said he was. So you’re just going to let this woman speak for you shows just how much of a back bone you have.

Many people who read this post saw nothing but i saw something of the complete opposite. All i saw was a guy who has his whole life ahead of him being manipulated by this woman because she screwed up and is looking for a Captain Save-A-Hoe. In all honesty she probably saw that this guy was in the military she knew that he was gonna be well off and she found her cash cow. Who’s to say he’ll even be with this girl in the future? If they break up then he’ll have to cough up his military money for child support payments.

This is in no way to bash single mothers, I know couples get divorced and some relationships don’t last but the fact of the matter is if you know you’re in a relationship with a loser who won’t amount to anything, why pop out not one, not two, but three kids by him and you’re barely in your 20’s? That’s pure irresponsibility. I can understand one but three is just straight up ridiculous.